as you are probably aware, having goals in life is important. the search for achievements, success and happiness is a lifelong process. i think that sometimes the goals people have in life are lofty and, frankly, kind of boring. people in the developed world want a house with a white picket fence, a family that loves them, world peace, money to retire comfortably, the boring list goes on. i totally want that stuff too, and want it for others as well. but when i day dream i’m rarely thinking about my investments or what adjectives i should use to describe myself in my next interview. i dream of awesome things.
here is a list of some of these things.
1.) some day i want to stay in a hotel with my own private infinity pool.
i really like to browse hotel and travel websites. i love to travel, and i love hotels. and, i love nice hotels. i haven’t stayed in many, but the nicest ones live on in my memory. when i need an escape from stress or humdrum days, i think about sunshine, ocean breezes, fancy drinks and swimming. i want one time in my life to be able to get out of bed, put on my bathing suit and hop into my own pool. what a feeling of luxury that must be. this feeling would also be accomplished if i owned a home with my own pool. i also dream of this.
2.) be friends with a beluga whale.
really, this whole list could be about how i often imagine a world in which i have a pet tiger, bear and whale. but not in a sketchy zoo kind of way. in this imaginary world these creatures totally want to cuddle with me and let me sing to them. i just really want to sit down to watch a movie and lean up against a big warm fuzzy animal. and then, go for a swim in my infinity pool with my beluga. i would just float and stare at his hilarious face for hours.
3.) i want to invent something.
when i picture this, it is maybe a little too similar to the plot of romy and michelle’s high school reunion than i might like, but i do love that movie so i’m not going to worry too much. but yeah, those girls wanted to feel like they accomplished something so they pretend they invented post-it notes. so, that idea is taken. but i really do want to have a big idea. i don’t need to become a millionaire, i just want to be able to take credit for something that is awesome. i still think my fancy adult bib idea is a really good one. as is my bathtub spa.
4.) if didn’t have to work, i would love to be a ‘lady who lunches’
in my mind, these ladies are the epitome of class. they are well read, well dressed and well connected. i want to be able to wake up at a reasonable hour, get dressed in a nice suit and maybe a pill box hat and go out for lunch. we would talk of michelangelo, politics and popular culture (because ladies who lunch are also well rounded). after lunch i would go to museums, volunteer and explore the world. the big thing with this dream life is that i also get to be a really big philanthropist. i envision i would be someone like the grandmother from the gilmore girls – she was a bit more high strung than i would be, but she was always organizing things and i think that would be fun. obviously i would raise money for really cool things like girl effect.
5.) i think i would make a really great addition to a board of directors.
it seems like a pretty cool gig. you get to meet a couple times a year and make decisions. ideally i would be on the board of something really interesting like an orchestra or department store. but i would be up for anything.
6.) once, just once, i would like to meet a genie and have some wishes granted.
a lot of people wish they could win the lottery, but that is boring. i want 3 wishes. i’ve seen enough movies and read enough fables to know that i would have to be really clever in how i word my wishes. obviously i’m not going to give away my secrets, but i have some good wishes in mind. it will depend quite a bit on what time in my life i meet the genie, as i can imagine if i were an 80 year old i may have very different wishes than i do today. this is a great way to daydream, i highly recommend it.
7.) it would be a real treat for me to be able to walk into a shoe store and buy any pair of shoes i want.
i have wide feet. like hobbit wide. i have had salespeople stare up at me in horror after they measure my feet. i have been told so many times that the shoes i like don’t come in my width. for a very long time i was forced to wear hideous shoes while all my friends wore super cute and fun shoes. when i was a teenager i discovered doc martens, and they suited my rebellious sensibility and actually fit. that was awesome. then came my love affair with birkenstocks. i wear them all the time. but now that i am an adult, i need to wear adult shoes. there is nowhere in my city that i can find a wide range (get it?) of shoes that will fit me. i have to make a special trip to a great store in vancouver to get new shoes. the shoes i get are really cute and i finally feel somewhat trendy, but i want more. i want to see shoes in a window and make them mine without a care in the world!!
8.) and last but not least, i want you, anderson cooper, to be my bff.
we would hang out, giggle and talk for hours. i think we would have a lot of fun together. you can teach me about the real housewives, and i will tell you all about real estate reality tv. then, when things get real we can talk about politics and the world at large. because we are so close, you will tell me what you really think and i will feel special. when you film your talk show, i will often sit in the audience and you will refer to me, and the camera will pan to me and i will wave, bashfully of course, because i don’t want to flaunt what we have.
admittedly, some of my goals are frivolous. but i really like being able to turn to these things and let my mind wander. i feel better about my future when i do.
have a great day,